Thursday, October 31, 2013

HAPPY HALLOWEEN.....

Happy Halloween to ya' all out there!  To me it is just another day in the land of Zion, but the kids are excited.  We don't have trick or treaters back in our Condo Unit, so I don't buy all that good candy that I could munch on for weeks afterwards.  A little rain is forecast but should be  fun night for the kids......I remember some years when it was so cold and stormy and the kids so bundled you couldn't even see their cute costumes. This year no fun trip to the grade school to watch one of the grand kids in their room by room march through the lunch room, to show off the many different ideas that the little ones have......Scottie moved up to middle school this year.  I do have lots of fun memories though of the years gone by.
No, this isn't Pam and I dressing up for Halloween......We are dressed for the 1K mile race at Nicci's wedding.......even though we would easily fit into any Halloween night costume party????
Happy Halloween for Rob......he is off having a colonoscopy.  And oh yes, the Boston Red Socks won the championship last night.

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Chapter #9.....around the world......

One of our favorite parts of the world was a trip to Tahiti for a couple of nights.  We stayed in a beautiful hotel on the side of the mountain and swam in the ocean.  My first experience of black sand! Then off to the Island of MOOREA.......stayed in little bungalows a few feet off the ground with chickens running under them.  The water and beaches here were wonderful and the twins loved this beautiful water and shells and bright fish. All of our first experience in snorkeling.  Down the beach was the fun beach Club Med. Many top-less girls running around .....which Don thoroughly  enjoyed ,and was an eye opener for the little girls.   Just their culture we explained! Went back another time taking Pam and Rob......which was even more fun with the whole family.  My first Peru was
from Moorea.  Climate unreal.
Later I went back to Tahiti to spend a few nights before a cruise with Ann  and on down to all those islands in that part of the world.......

TOMORROW IS BIG DAY.....

Woke up to rain and a cloudy day.......but I woke up so I guess that is a plus!  Been listening to the bad news of the coming of Obama care.....Sebelius testifying......lies, lies, lies! An email I received just stated any one over 76 will not be treated for cancer!  Hello......I am 81 with a family history of cancer......should I just write farewell notes to all my family and friends now......just in case?  It seems to me they just want old people ......those over 76.......to roll over and die!
Tomorrow is an exciting day for all the kids....HALLOWEEN!  I hadn't really planned to " trick or treat" but a list just came to my attention that made me wonder if it was a good idea.  Important reasons Senior Citizens should not go 'trick or treating.'......... #1. They keep knocking on their own door.......#2. They take out their false to change their appearance........#3.  Ask for soft high fiber candy only.......#4.  When someone drops a candy bar in our bag, we lose our balance and fall over.....#5. When the door opens we yell "trick or......."and can't remember the rest.  #5.  By the end of the night, we have a bag full of restraining orders. #6.  Choose carefully a costume doesn't dislodge your hair piece  #7. You find your the only Power Ranger in the neighborhood with a walker!......#8. People tell you, you have a great mask AND your not wearing one. #9.  Big reason .......seniors have to keep going home to pee!.....Hey, we're just human.
                    "I am done with great things and big plans, great institutions and big success.  I am for those tiny, invisible loving human forces that work from individual, creeping through the crannies of the world like so many rootlets, or like the capillary oozing of water, which, if given time, will rend the hardest monuments of pride." (William James)

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Yea, to Retail Therapy.......

Lettuce wraps.......one of my favorites at the Pei Wei.  Pam and I stopped off for lunch after dropping Bree off at the groomers with a few hours to spare we headed to the outlets at Thanksgiving Point.  Our original plan was the outlets at Park City, but they were having a snow storm up there.  Neither Pam nor I had been to this relative new outlets and had a great time shopping. I voted my favorite to be the Ralph Lauren's Polo store..........Pam had better luck than I did, but I did a little shopping.  Earlier Kar came by with a neat vest for tending her children over the weekend....she doesn't know they really tend me!
UNDER THE INFLUENCE........We are all under the influence of someone.  When we are young it is usually our parents.  As teens it is often our peers and teachers, as well as the fashion trends of celebrities we favor.....I was always in love with some "movie star"...As adults, things get a bit more complicated.....our lives intersect with those of many others, both personally and virtually....here is where we decide which ones we want to follow.  Be aware of the influence others have in our life.  Hang out with those who give you a hand up, instead of pulling you down.
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Monday, October 28, 2013

Chapter #8.......around the world....


GALAPAGOS ISLANDS....... include the following........Santa Cruz, San Cristobal, Baltra,,  Isabela and Pinta.  These island are like no others and were so fun to visit.  Many tourist tour the islands on expensive ships they cruise around on.  Our group were on a very low budget tour.  We had a fun resort with bungalows on the water......only trouble......we left in the dark when the tide was out to board our ship, and got back to shore after dark........ where we had to wade in the tide back to our resort.  Our early morning wake up call was a rap on the front window, but they did have a shower and toilet!  One of my favorite experiences of this trip was to mail two post cards back to myself on one of the islands.  We picked up the cards left from the people before us to mail back to them when we got home.  The people who followed us picked up our cards and mailed them back to us when they got home.  One of my cards was from NYC and the other was mailed from Seattle.  That's how the mail system got started I guess. The wonderful array of wild life was everywhere and you just had to step over them or walk around them, they had no fear of people.  Seals, crabs, turtles, blue footed boobies (My favorite), iguanas  etc. It was this personal interaction with the birds and animals........not the scenery.......that I will always remember. There was also a very large museum of DRAWINS work that tied it all together.

LOVE SURPRISES.......

This is Korina Northcott Elliott..........One of my favorite nieces.  She gave me a fun surprise for Halloween.......a fun card and a box of goodies she had made.....I especially liked the rubber gloves filled with goodies and tied at the top with a ribbon...  She is very talented and is showing, real signs of being related to me and her grandma Hazel Yeomans!  She loves old things....antiques, garage sales, swaps meets, thrift stores etc.  Always looking for something old to use again in another way......or just cherish it's "oldness" like my mother did and I still do. I am sad my Saturday morning garage sales are ending......just to cold in the winter. Thank you Kina for remembering your old aunt in Salt Lake, it is having family like you that care that keeps me going.
  At times of EXTRAORDINARY joy or surprise, shock or sorrow, emotions  are difficult to express.  We just can't seem to find the right words to say how we feel. Similarly, there may be times when you find it impossible to thank someone because you don't know what to say.  You yearn to reveal your inmost thoughts to a person,, but words that come to mind fall short of your true feelings and fail to get to the bottom of your true emotions. However, this is not a good excuse to not try and let them know how much you appreciate their time and effort.
"When you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside.  It is as though something inside your body responds and says Yes, this is how I ought to feel."  (Rabbi Kushner)

Sunday, October 27, 2013

GOOD AND BAD......

This seems like yesterday when this cute little one was the youngest of my 9 grandchildren. Scott Calvin Cook........ he.just turned 12.   I spent the weekend babysitting Scott and Annie while the Cooks slipped off to LA for a break.  Karrie thinks I am baby sitting her kids, BUT,,,,,really they are taking care of Grammie.  Friday a little friend came home with Scott from school till that night.  We had Pizza and root beer floats!  Andrea was busy cheering, taking ATC tests and getting ready for the big school dance so didn't see much of her.  Scott and I hit the Panda Express on Saturday and checked out a movie......then Sunday......off to church.  Scott and I went to church......Sad, my last Children's Primary Program with my 9 grandchildren......Happy, it was Scott's first day to pass the sacrament!  He did it like a pro. I was so proud of him.  After he showered that morning he had pressed his white shirt and black pants.......which blew my mind!  He is training to be a good missionary I guess. I offered, but he said no.
After church we got Annie up and went of to Chili's for dinner and watch a movie we checked out.  Gigi and I are back home in our own little beds tonight!  Panniers still in Island Park.

Saturday, October 26, 2013

PlAYING WITH YOUR FOOD?

It takes imagination, talent and the love of food to spend time creating these interesting looking examples of art.  I like radishes, but only to chop up for a salad! And when I munch an apple I might have made some interesting designs on it, but I wasn't in to making it look like a map of he world or a famous work of art.
So many people now days are on food stamps since 2006 the number has doubled......which is not good!
From the Heritage Foundation........A program called "means tested" benefits programs are second largest category of government spending.  The government spends more on these programs than public education and defense spending. WOW....programs such as Social Security, unemployment insurance, workers comp. and Veterans benefits not considered "means tested".
Clearly, this is a huge problem.  A country cannot survive if it's citizens are not willing or able to work.  In 35 states welfare pays better than an actual  job.  This is what is called an "incentive" and the US is incentivizing people not to work.  Why would a person actually get a job if they could be paid more to stay home?  In Pennsylvania, a single woman with children working a job that pays 28,000 a year actually receives 57,345 in total benefits when benefits are factored in .  Conversely, the woman were to work a job  for 69,000 a year, her net pay after taxes only 57,045!  I wonder where I can sign up for Obama's "freebees"?   These welfare people are eating better than many hard working, honest people.  What can we do?                                                                                                                                                                              Now this is way to pretty for the Stew Pot!!!!!!
 

Friday, October 25, 2013

Chapter #7....round the world.....

Bora Bora.......These were always magic words of a far away paradise that most people can only read about but not see.  The beautiful scenery, blue water, bright flowers, warm winds and oh yes those fun little bungalows over the water with their glass bottoms are just in pictures for most.  These are pictures my granddaughter just published from her honeymoon last week.  I spent a day in Bora Bora once when I was on a cruise and I personally got to see these places.  It was a fast paced day of tours of the pearl factories, the town  square with it's fun market with beautiful pearl and shell jewelry. I also remember an interesting lunch with their local music accompaniment. I say to all my family and friends......put Bora Bora on your bucket list!

 Wonderful scenes like this and if you are a water person......you can get in touch with their sea creatures around every turn.
Nicci Pannier/Trovinger on honeymoon in Bora Bora in October 2013..........

WHO IS NEXT????

Am I impressed by Royalty?.....Well, I loved Diana and her children.  I won't voice my opinion of Charles! Now that William is all grown up and has a beautiful wife and darling baby I am hooked.  I like Queen Elizabeth and hope I live long enough to see who is to follow her, but know eventually it will be William and then George.  Someday as my great-grandchildren read this they will enjoy these pictures maybe. Also love that in this day of Face book, emails etc, these wonderful pictures are available to everyone. 
London's celebrities...... or who's who's........Queen and Prince Phillip.  Charles with the wicked step mother (Camilla). William's brother, Kate's sister and brother and parents with William, Kate and baby George. Very special day when George was Christened.
A busy weekend babysitting my sweet Cook kids.  Panniers off to Island Park for the weekend.  Spent yesterday worrying about my dog.  Dropped her off at the groomers  (Petco)  for a bath and clean up at 11;30......After several calls I finally got to pick her up at 7:00......not good!  I am considering changing groomers! Beautiful Fall weather is suppose to hold through the weekend...yea.

Thursday, October 24, 2013

HAUNTED?????

What haunts you?  This is the time of year "haunted" is used a lot......mostly in connection with Halloween which is a week away. What am I haunted by......well really quite a few things.  I am haunted by what Obama care will do to our health system, by the thought that eventually my kids won't let me drive, that my health will change, that something terrible will happen as my kids 'FLY' around the country......Oh, I could go on and on but I just have to say this too will pass when bumps appear in my life.......and remember to enjoy every minute of my life when its 'all good'.
PAST LIVES......."There are many ways to be haunted, not all of them supernatural.  From photo albums to love letters, the memory of bad choices, broken promises, lost loves, and shattered dreams can often linger far longer than the glow of satisfaction from our greatest accomplishments.  Indeed, the most frightening ways to be haunted may be in the many ways we haunt ourselves!"
Played the last two days so today is get some 'to dos' crossed off my list like take GIGI to the groomer, buy stamps, cover the patio furniture etc.  Our nice weather is suppose to end Monday and I am baby sitting the Cooks all weekend.

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Chapter #6.....around the world......

THE GREAT WALL OF CHINA......you have to see it to believe it and I have been lucky enough to have walked on it! Yes, we took pictures and there are many, but you have to share it with others, see it, feel it,  to know how great it really is.  My trip to Beijing China with my sister and Cox's was a dream come true.  The history, Tenn
imon Square, architecture......fish ponds, beautiful gardens and water features..  Interesting food also.......and the shopping...wow!  From Beijing we flew to Xi'an to be treated to the Terracotta Soldiers lined up by the dozens.  We also had the privilege of meeting one of the farmers whose land the graves were discovered on.  I bought one of his books and he personally signed it.  Another lucky day for me in my exciting life of travel.
         I did not see where the Great Wall ends, but often wondered how they knew when to quit building it.  This is the end of the GREAT WALL!  To me it is one of the great wonders of the world, when I think of the time put in and the people involved it blows your mind.  I hope my children get to see it someday.

GRATITUDE.........

Had a good day with one of my bridge clubs.....Brunch and bridge took most the day as usual.  Seems everyone has a story to tell.  The big new was Mae's 2 year old granddaughter had a heart transplant two weeks ago......and so far doing very good with it.  She read  a touching letter her daughter had written to the Donner's family.....of course she didn't know who they were, what age their child was or even if it was a boy or a girl.  The social worker will just pass it on to them and they may or may not wish to know the lucky family that got their child's heart. Stories like that make me know my troubles are nothing......compared to many others.  My heart is full of gratitude for all my blessings.
I know those who are convinced that there's no greater power outside of ourselves but have often silently prayed "please help this plane to land safely", " please help my child to be safe or get well" , shouldn't there be a mirror impulse of "thank you" when the good thing you ask for happens.  I believe that acknowledging the fact that there is some power beyond yourself opens you up in unique way.  Human beings are not static, and the direction of your thoughts deeply shapes the kind of person you are becoming.  I believe prayer helps you become your best possible self.
"Life is not easy for any of us.  BUT WHAT OF THAT?  We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted, for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained." (Marie Curie)

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Chapter #5....around the world......

QUITO, ECUADOR.......A favorite part of South America for me. They use our dollar and the prices for everything are great.  The people are interesting and friendly.  My favorite thing was the line that represents the Equator running right through it....this picture shows where you can stand with one foot in each hemisphere. Took many picture with my friends but had to fight a Russian delegation for front and center.......BUT, my favorite was a short day excursion to CAYAMBE, ECUADOR......THE CITY AT THE CENTER OF THE EARTH!  Bet not many people have that honor.  Here there is a globe monument (representing the middle of the world).....in a spot where the road to Cayambe from Quito crosses the equator.  There is another " middle of the world monument"...... in Cayambe near Hacienda Guachala which explains in great detail the history of the equator line.  This monument was created by scientist Cristobal Cobo.
Such fun memories of this part of the world.....our tour guide stopped at a bakery....one of many.....and bought us some Bizcochos.  They are long thin yellowish biscuits made by hand in ovens like pizza ovens.  They are salty and go well with cheese. Also another wonderful sight was many, many nursery's of beautiful roses of every color.  Many are shipped to the U.S.  They charged us five cents a rose. 
From Quito we hopped over to the Galapagos Islands, but that's another chapter...........

CHANGING SEASONS.........

Every season has it's fun times.........and you just have to jump in and enjoy them.  Here is Andrea Ramsey and Jake in a corn maize........and they look like it was a lot of fun. All those beautiful green corn fields are now just dried out, brown corn stalks, but they make games out of them.....how unique! 
THERE ARE SEVEN DAYS IN A WEEK AND SOMEDAY IS NOT ONE OF THEM!!!!!! I love that thought? When I saw that today I thought about all the things we plan to do SOMEDAY. Someday I am going to clean all my drawers, I am going to lose 20 pounds, I am going to paint the bathroom, I am going to call that old friend.....SOMEDAY!  I was just wondering how we can implement that SOMEDAY into our weeks legally......or maybe it is good we have that SOMEDAY out there to fall back on, kinda a spare day we think we can use........... SOMEDAY. 
"THE VOICE" There is a voice inside of you, that whispers all day long.  "I feel that  this is right for me, or I know that this is wrong."  No teacher, preacher, parent, friend or wise man can decide.  What's right for you.....just listen to the voices that speaks inside.
Do you know 100% of us will die some time in our life???

Monday, October 21, 2013

Chapter #4...Kota Kinabalu....around the world

KOTA KINABALU located in East Malaysia on the northwest coast of Borneo facing the So China Sea.   Known as KK internationally, it is a major fishing destination and popular gateway to Borneo. My very first cruise with Nadine Lyngle (both newly divorced), took me there to see a complete eclipse of the sun.......sooo exciting. A beautiful part of the world so far from my home in Salt Lake City. I did not get to explore the country side long enough, but the culture, people, shopping and excitement will always be special to me. I remember the sunset as we pulled out and the small fishing vessels scattered around near the homes on stilts close to where we had docked.  I felt very lucky to have been to this interesting place.....one of my first of many to come......I was 56 years old.

Yep, it's Monday again........

Honestly, when your not working Mondays are good........but I love this picture......I know for working people, weekends just aren't long enough.
THOUGHT OF THE DAY.......God often removes a person from your life for your protection......Think about that before you go running after them!
I find one thing common with friends my age we need quiet times or time alone......Of course, I adore my family and friends, but to be truly happy I need some alone time also.  And I refuse to feel guilty about that.  It doesn't have to be hours, just a short time.   I love to sit on the patio in the cool evenings and listen to the crickets and frogs, listen to the neighborhood noises and watch the stars pop out.  I slip upstairs to my favorite recliner and watch my favorite TV show...or sit quietly and knit a few rows or read a few chapters in a good book......or play a game on the computer.  Some people take long walks......not me!  Many people however shrink from being alone. They confuse solitude with loneliness......they are not the same thing.....don't feel if your not doing something constantly.....you are lazy.  Nope, you need to be alone with no stress and only your thoughts now and then in some quiet time.  Young mothers and older people voice this request more often.....
Another busy week is shaping up......movie and lunch with a friend tomorrow.  Wednesday brunch and bridge. Thursday dog groomed and chores. Weekend tending the Cook grandchildren and when I turn around.....Yes, it will be Monday again.  But, Mondays are special when I hear from both my missionaries...........

Sunday, October 20, 2013

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SCOTTIE....#12

       Best way to celebrate your birthday???? Scottie turned 12 yesterday......and here we are after the big game.  You can see he is almost as tall as I am......and the sweetest guy in the world.  His father and I gathered round. A very proud grandmother......today we continue the celebration with our traditional dinner at the Spaghetti Factory.....our family's favorite!
Pam gets home from Mexico and Rob from the Barn......she emailed she missed Bree!  She didn't mention me or Tiff?  It has been a beautiful weekend.....we will take it as long as it lasts.
       "YOU NEVER REALLY LOSE UNTIL YOU QUIT TRYING."   (Mike Ditka)

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Chapter 3 - around the world......

 A wonderful sight no matter how many time you are privileged to view it and visit it......The Leaning Tower of Pizza.......My first visit was with the twins when they were young.  We were visiting Italy and staying in Rome.  We took a bus tour out of Rome......they only had three seats available so Don did not go with us.  Later I went with my sister and family group on our European tour..  The first time we got to go into the church free, but they started charging and I did not go back into it the next time.  Very large, beautiful and a thrill to see no matter how often.  I never did climb to the top, but the first time many people on the tour did.....now I am not sure if they feel it is safe enough to do it today. I love Italy and the history is never ending!!

ENJOYING THE COLORS......

Our state is turning into a wonderland of colors.....yellows and oranges and reds dominating the landscape on every side.  Up early and off to watch Scottie my youngest grandchild play football on his 12th birthday......it was grandparent's day and I helped Karrie make hot chocolate, hot coffee and she picked up the doughnuts.  There was a lot of food and many proud grandparents strung along the sidelines in the warm fall sunshine proudly cheering on their favorite player. Scott's dad is one of the assistant coaches so it is quite a family affair! They are off to fun and games to finish up the big day.  It seems being a "big football hero" starts early and is a good goal for any little boy.  Besides girls love boys on the football team, but when you think about it ........"We have the whole concept of popularity backward.  We imagine it as a small and exclusive club of people we idolize or envy.  But most popular people are hated by the majority.  So, if you are despised by everyone outside your little clique, and liked only by those inside it, you are vastly unpopular by any objective measure. The key to ultimate popularity is not to be loved or envied by as may as people as possible but to be loved or envied by the right people."  I hope my little football hero realizes this sometime along the way.
Well, now to get serious and finish the laundry and do some yard work.

Friday, October 18, 2013

Chapter 2....60 years around the world!

The top castle is In Werfen, Austria.....It is quite well preserved, but rather space inside.  When your growing up you think about the king and queens in their fancy clothes and all their servants that live in these castles and rule the land.  As you wonder through them you realize how cold they really were....... I am so glad some castles  have been preserved for us and our children and grand-children to see there were such a thing as a real castle.....
Now the castle of my dreams was the Neuschwanstein Castle in Germany.  It is the castle that Disney Land copied for Disney Land.  I have been through it four times and I discover a new treasure every time. Don and I saw it first, then took his brother and sister-in-law, then when the twins were 9, we spent their 9th birthday at the foot of the castle in a little town called Fussin and went through with them.  Then my sister and a family group visited it after I was divorced.  I have never been there when there was snow. It is the castle of all castle as far as I am concerned.  At the foot of the mountain it is on, is a fun little village with wonderful food and shopping.. Ludwig's castle has such interesting history with such a sad ending.  He hardly lived in this one, but had several. There are many castles in Germany you can see as you take a Rhine River Cruise........which I have done a couple of times!

NEVER ESTIMATE......

No matter where you go, you hear stories of people's lives.  After a party, a meeting, any outing, when you come home you say "I wouldn't trade their problems for mine!"  Everyone has a cross to bear in their lives.
       "You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.  You are able to say to yourself,  "I lived through this horror.  I can take the next  thing that comes along."  ....You must do the thing you think you cannot do.  (Eleanor Roosevelt) 
       I cannot tell you the fear that enveloped me when my husband walked out on his family when I was 54.  I had never worked in the 30 years of our marriage, I had no idea if I could get a job at this age with no work experience, had no idea how you start dating again, I had to find us a new home and take out a mortgage, set up an IRA account, get insurance for myself, pay taxes, have the cars serviced and inspected, the kids stayed on his airline insurance until they finished college.  Make a home for two 18 year olds, who had to have cars and continue with their lives and education......and go on with my life in a stable, sensible manner.
           Now 27 years later I have gained strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which I fearfully stepped up and faced the fear of it.  I am here to tell all my suddenly single friends and acquaintances .....it isn't always easy, but you too can do it.
           Today was a fun day with Karrie and Scottie.....an early birthday celebration.  Brunch at IHOP and a movie.  Tomorrow is SCOT'S REAL birthday, a football game......special for grandparent! Then dinner Sunday at the Spaghetti Factory!!!!!  He will be 12.  Annie is in Calif. with the cheer-leaders. My life is good!

Thursday, October 17, 2013

AROUND THE WORLD IN 60 YEARS..

As I mark of the days of my life's calendar, I realize I no longer will be hopping around the world to view the many wonderful and wonderous sights and places out there----and I am thankful for the photographers who make it possible for me to continue to enjoy the sights of the world from my rocking chair at home.......bringing back many memories of the places I have been... in.over 100 countries and 48 states!
Burma.....also Myanmar......was always a dream of mine and when we walked across that bridge from Thailand into it, all the sounds, sights, smells and monks in orange, I knew I had arrived. We toured temples and the home of some of the monks.  They live very humbly and the temple was surrounded by dogs, hungry, sick, lonesome......but being feed by the good monks.  I also bought a small sparrow from a little boy for a few cents.  He had several birds in a little cage and for a small charge you could pick one, make a wish and he would set it free to fly off and make your wish come true???? I think I wished this little boy would make enough money from the tourist to help feed his family that night.  Also, the shopping was great........ Funny what you remember.......not the big beautiful buildings and scenery, but the people and their random acts of kindness.

CAN I SLOW DOWN TIME?

Well, I have been alone all week as the Pannier's are off to Mexico and Island Park so I am back to my favorite 4 food groups!!!!  Yes, canned, boxed, bagged and frozen????......well maybe I should also add Drive Inns.  I have always contended eating is expensive, time consuming and a waste of time.....unless you are enjoying the company of a friend or family.....and because it is necessary for life!  I made it clear a long time ago....after my divorce and my girls were married......I wouldn't even have a kitchen, but it came with the house!
The time in my life is passing very fast.  When you're young, you're doing many things for the first time, and your brain notes them as particularly memorable---so when you look back at those years, they seem to have lasted forever.  As you get older, you are having fewer novel experiences, so it's easier for the days to slip by.  So we need to keep making new memories---we need to keep learning, traveling, reaching out and having new experiences.  How many "my firsts" have you had this week, this month, this year?  I have had quite a few, and each time I try to record them in my memory. I realize I can't harness the time-space continuum, but for now maybe this is he next best thing!  I also think the sooner you start to number your days, the better you'll live the days that you have left.  My friend sent an email of some beautiful pictures taken around the world.....brought back so many memories this morning....so I said to myself.  "Betty, this is it.  All you have is the here and now, and my here is great.  Enjoy it!"
Last night I went to the Brighton football game with the Cooks.  It is probably the last time I will see Annie cheer, they have one more game and the Cooks will be out of town and I will be baby sitting so probably won't go alone.  The last three years have been fun and reminded me of the good times I enjoyed being a cheer-leader in High School. The weather was frosty fall football weather.......

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

TO-DO OR NOT TO-DO LIST?

My bucket list is long......They say it's never too late, but of course it is------for all the things that waste your time, drain your energy, and make you feel anything less than fulfilled, content, and delightful. A story of a girl named Mickey who said she had 10 pounds to lose and had hardly left her room for weeks until she lost it, she was at a party celebrating and said now I can start living.....two days later she was killed in a traffic accident! As I ponder this story and think of it often I wonder what I would do if I was given a specific time limit to live....I can tell you I would not sit in a room waiting for my thighs to shrink! Life is brief and there is a lot we don't have time for.
Yes we can make alterations to our body....lose weight, gain weight, have doctors preform liposuction or remove a mole. The fact is we each get one body per lifetime, the one your in now is what your stuck with. I am finally at the point in my life where my life isn't about my body.  "For this one instant, I accept my body completely!"
There is a popular Zen saying: "Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.  After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water." Discover  life's purpose isn't some end goal, like keeping your closets and drawers organized or bake a perfect pie or weigh as much as you did in high school.  Our purpose  manifests in the way we orient ourselves to experience.   Living your life's purpose happens when you begin choosing the state of mind that feels the most fundamentally correct for you......bag the closets and drawers!  I hope I am not too late to stop feeling guilty about enjoying the simple things in my life...phoning friends, lunch with my girls, a good book, enjoying my favorite TV program or a game of Suduko! 
                  "I have found a kind of serenity, a new maturity.....I didn't feel better or stronger than anyone else but it   
seemed no longer important whether everyone loved me or not....more important now was for me to love them.  Feeling that way turns, your whole life around; living becomes the act of giving." (Beverly Sills)

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

HIDDEN STRENGTH........

Where does this older lady get the strength to paddle her goats....without a life jacket.....off to the other side of this water.......standing up yet???
"You can transcend all negativity when you realize that the only power it has over you is the belief in it.  As you experience this truth about yourself you are set free."......Eileen Cassy
"I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within.  It is there all the time."........  Anna Freud

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DARREN.....

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Happy Birthday Darren......my second son-in-law turns 47 today.  He had a busy day as usual and would celebrate in Lake Powell this weekend.....if the government doesn't close it again! 
Wasted today.....Coffee with Patty and Ruth, at Ruth's home till 2:30, then tonight is bridge at Bev's across the street. 
My cute granddaughter Annie,  came by for a visit and I got a letter from Alex, in Brazil on a mission.......such a treat! Grandchildren are so interesting and each one of my nine are completely different. Annie wants me to make her a quilt for Christmas, and wants to go with me to pick out the material......which is even more fun. I would never have dreamed she would want a quilt......over clothes. Life is good.......

Monday, October 14, 2013

DO IT NOW.....

I expect to pass though life but once.  If therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it, as I shall not pass this way again!  (William Penn)
Life is short and we have not too much time for gladdening the heart of those who are traveling in the dark way with us.  Oh, be swift to Love! Make haste to be kind.  (Henri Frederic Amiel)

OUR WONDERFUL BODY.....

We so take our wonderful bodies for granite!  I believe in some instances we can heal ourselves......and there are those out there that seem to have given us a map as to how to do it. With this picture came instructions on what and how to help do it.......1.  Determine the affected area.  2.  Practice twice daily.  3.  Press appropriate area with thumb for 5 seconds.  5.  Time for 2 minutes (not less).  6.  For maximum relief, repeat daily for  week to 10 days.  7.  If more than one area needs attention, do each area separately. (An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.)
Our brain is more complex than the world's most powerful computer.  It is responsible for everything we think ,see, hear, feel, smell or do.  It even creates and directs all our emotions. The brain is divided into different areas that direct different parts of our body.  Like a complex computer, all the different parts of the brain work at the same time......I think every child is exposed to all this in school even though at the time neurons, dendrites, and axons are just words we have to learn for a test.....but they are all "US".  This is all very interesting to me now.
A rainy Monday morning and I have a long "to-do" list for the week.  Also this is P-day for my missionaries....YES!

Sunday, October 13, 2013

COUSINS.....

You can never replace the connections you have with families.....Cousins, aunts, uncles, nephews, nieces and children of the above.  Last night I spent a warm and enjoying evening with my favorite cousin and two of her daughters......Becky and Shannon..  We went to see BRIGADOON at the Hale Theater.  One of the main stars was my nephews son, Chase Ramsey. When anyone you are related to succeeds the honor and pride is passed through you all just like the blood lines you share.  Chase was so cute and did such a good job and was so appreciative that Lucille and I would come. Saw Chase's wife Vanessa and her parents sat in front of us.  Chase's adopted family were also there to support him.....The Holcombs. Lucille and I grew up 18 miles apart an I was only 9 days older than she is.....so we share much.....However with her big family of six children and 19 grandchildren plus significant others......even great-grandkids we don't get to see each other much.... but thanks to the telephone we touch base every week.  .Oh yes my three children and 9 grandkids also are my priority. So a fun relaxing evening together was a treat.......and at 81 we never know how many more we will have to enjoy.
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Saturday, October 12, 2013

I CAN DO THAT........

I can do that.....who hasn't lived to regret those four little words?  I am one of those people who are convinced 'I can do anything'......maybe not as well as someone else, but it never hurts to try!  As I thumb through Martha Steward or flip through Pinterest......they promise all those fabulous ideas that are very enticing 'are easy'....and I figure if someone else did it I can.  I just found a couple of web sites that help you from feeling a complete failure when your project turns out to be a real eyesore not fit for a back-alley dumpster.  CraftFail.com will make you feel a lot better.  Not to be discouraged when you decide to stencil a white paisley pattern on a burgundy patio umbrella.  The umbrella turned out looking a if it were a roost to a dozen pigeons with diarrhea.  Worst the paint seeped through the drop cloths and stained the porous patio pavers.  This wouldn't happen to Martha!!! If you are a 'do-it-yourself er one thing to learn is .....the greatest tool we have is failure'.......When we succeed with the first try we don't give much thought to why we succeeded.  But when we fail, we get all this valuable information about why things don't work......I have lots of that kind of information. Desperate????? Do a gone-wrong Google.  In addition to looking online at gorgeous examples of DIY drapes or outdoor projects or whatever your desire.  Look for the ugly results,...... so you know what could happen and what to avoid.......And if you mess up, well celebrate the failure and try again.

Friday, October 11, 2013

BEEN FIVE YEARS......

The road in life is paved with good intentions.......or something like that!.......I did do a little swimming this summer and I really depend on my "Retail Therapy" trips to keep me moving......that's shopping to you. If I go up and down every isle at Costco, Target, Walmart etc.  I get in a few miles pushing the cart.  It passes the time, I enjoy the people, and even if I don't end up buying anything, at least I have been moving and breathing .......and not sweating! I was a faithful exerciser for many years, but all good things come to an end, and my end has come. Yep, it has been about five years since I even had the thought, but I haven't taken the word out of my vocabulary. I do have some crazy 'RED NECK' relatives that really flaunt it... My son-in-law and oldest grandson for example.....they even dress for  it!  Oh, I think I have a shirt like that????
"To compose our character is our duty.....Our great and glorious masterpiece is to live appropriately.  All other things, To rule, To lay up treasure, To build, are at most but little appendices and props." (Michael De Montaigne)

Thursday, October 10, 2013

HONEY MOONERS......

So many memories of this little one...Nicole Alice Pannier.....always  a fun, happy, go-getter.  I can't believe the years have flown as I watched her grow up , swim meets, marching girl team in high school, dancing in fancy costumes, graduation from Brighton Hi, from ASU  in Phoenix and when she got her MBA from Kelly Business School in Indiana and the wedding in Minneapolis this month.....now I get a picture from her on her honey-moon in Bora Bora!  (I don't believe I was invited to that big event.....I'm not busy I could have made it??) and I have tried to share all her other big days!  My only consolation is I have been to Bora Bora.  Love you NIC and know your having a wonderful time.  This is their bungalow.

CLOCK WATCHING..........

OH YES.......I can hardly wait till this picture becomes a reality!  I may not live that long BUT I hope I can.  He can't lead, can he follow? He can't tell the truth either.
A man died and went to heaven, as he stood in front of St Peters at the Pearly Gates, he saw a huge wall of clocks behind him.  He asked, "what are all those clocks?"  St. Peter answered those are "lie clocks". " Everyone on  earth has a lie clock.  Every time you lie the hands on your clock move". "Oh" said the man, "whose clock is that?" That's Mother Teresa's .  The hands have never moved, indicating that she never told a lie. "Incredible" said the man.  That's Abraham Lincoln's clock.  The hands have moved twice, telling us that Abe told only two lies in his entire life."  "Where is Obama's clock?"  "His clock is in Jesus office.  He is using it as a ceiling fan!"
It's not that I don't like Obama......it's just that I like everyone else in the world BETTER!  Just have to vent!
And my world goes on.....took Pam in for a colonoscopy this morning.  Good news from the doctor, nothing seen in there and a bunch of gross pictures, the doctor shares what he saw!!!! Very cold and rainy today, but we do need the moisture.

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

MEMORIES.......


Oh yes, seeing this picture brought back some wonderful memories of three years ago today.....my oldest grandchild Tiffany Pannier married Scott Horton in a beautiful wedding at the Salt Lake Country Club.  Flowers, music, his and her's wedding cakes, sit down dinner and open bar and dancing.  Such fun dancing with my two youngest grandsons, Kennedy and Scottie. So a great big CONGRATULATIONS.......to Tiff and Scott today. I love weddings and am happy to have lived long enough to enjoy two out of my nine grandchildren so far.
Did America have a "Superiority Complex"?  If it did,.....it no longer should. the way our President is acting.  Bad news is good news.  Few satisfy us as fully as the comedown of someone we dislike, or someone we do like, or even someone we don't even know.  We eat it up like a scandalous tabloid story, a 'without makeup' photo, or even mildly juicy local gossip.  Nothing sells like failure. Will that be what Obama is remembered for....a big fat failure?  Today I would say yes.
I guess every day has some good things and some bad things happening in our lives.......

WHERE IN THE WORLD???

Well the secret is out!  Nicci and Bill left for Bora Bora last night on their honeymoon........she didn't know where she was going until they hit LA.  He is a good secret keeper.  I loved Bora Bora and wear a necklace of a ivory fishhook with a big black pearl on it I got when I was there.  The black pearls are out of this world.......and so is the scenery.....the people and the ambiance. One of my favorite places......above Hawaii for me.  To me the Final exam is....."we tend to measure lives and love the same way----by how long they last.  For most us, the longer the better.  But a short life can make a big impact just as a short-lived romance can leave a lasting impression.  In the end, it's not the time we spend but how we spend the time that truly tells our story." I think one good GRAVITY"example of this is my sweet mother......she gave and did......was loved......and influenced more people in her 58 years, than I have in my 81 years.....but I will keep trying.
Off to see "GRAVITY" this morning, will let you know what I think tomorrow.